Dating Advice for BBW Lovers

The best girls are the chubby ones. Besides cute and sexy, plus-size ladies are usually humble, comfortable in their bodies, and loving life to the fullest. They have a special kind of charm that aren’t found in other types of women. However, sometimes men who love BBW don’t know how to say the right things. Because these girls usually face certain circumstances, there are things that you should and shouldn’t do to win them. If you want to be successful at dating a hot BBW lady, here are some of the things that you should and shouldn’t do. bbw lover
1. Don’t talk about her weight at first date
Most of the times, this is the most blatant mistake a guy makes. It’s understandable that when you meet a girl you like, the first thing you do is mentioning what attracts you most about her. It is true that people who are attracted to fat bodies need to express their attraction too and it’s indeed positive. But telling her “You’re cute! I really love chubby chicks!” or “I’m into BBW girls and you are definitely my type” isn’t the same as, “I love your hair,” or, “Your eyes are very beautiful.” Even the most body-positive girls can be offended hearing this for the first time.

 
Girls hear a lot about their bodies and they can get very defensive about it. Fat girls, especially, may experience discrimination in their entire lives and probably even some bullying. Most of their lives, all people see about them are the fact that their overweight. So, they become particularly conscious of it.You don’t have to make it the center of everything, she has had enough of it. The fact that you’re into it doesn’t need to come at the first date. Don’t make her feel as if you see her only for her chubbiness. No girls love being treated like that.
2. Be patient
She will probably be suspicious. She will probably ask a lot of questions or take everything you say with a grain of salt. But don’t be surprised or feel offended. BBW girls have probably had some bad experiences in their lives with men. Some men who date them don’t want to be seen with them. Some men who sleep with them refuse to have more serious relationships with them. Some men think they’re “easy” because fat girls have probably been “rejected” a lot. This is a life experience shaping them to be something skeptical. Don’t take it personally. They will appreciate your patience to show them that you’re genuinely interested in them, no matter what kind of relationships you’re going to have next.
3. Talk to her like you would talk to other girls
Because fat girls are also girls and they want to be treated as such. They’re not aliens or fairies or other magical creatures. So even if you are unusually attracted to them, please treat them like you would treat other girls. Since they’ve been treated differently by many people, most of the times they just want to be special but normal. They don’t want people to put them as an “Other”.

Just talk to them like the way you would talk to girls at your first date. Find something in common. Say something good about her choices of fashion, restaurants, or music. Begin a conversation about the things she likes and you like. They will really appreciate this.

 

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